Satisfyer has empowered us, it has made many women aware that our sexuality depends on us and that, within the general framework of the revolution that women are experiencing, which began when a few generations ago we began to go out to work outside the home , one more step has been climbed. And it is an important step, because we are sexual beings and enjoying full sexuality takes care of us physically and mentally.
Without guilt and without being judged
Knowing our body is knowing ourselves
As the psychologist and sexologist Mireia Manjón explains, “it is important to talk about our masturbation in total freedom. It has to do with the empowerment of women. When you know your body, you know what you need ”.
Marta Canals de Ros's experience as a gynecologist supports the fact that sex toys help us get to know our body. Canals de Ros reminds us where we come from: “As a gynecologist specializing in menopause, I can say that there are many older women - over 60 years old - who don't even know what they have there. They do not dare to touch. They have only experienced penetration, but they have not masturbated and if the husband can no longer penetrate, they do nothing more ”.
For her, the change comes from the following generations, from the “women who today are 50 or more who have separated or have become widows and have rediscovered masturbation and resort to toys or workshops to meet again (in the sexual field) ”.
Masturbating is good for your health
The gynecologist is clear on this point: “The Health Guide says, masturbating is good for vaginal health because in menopause, due to the lack of estrogens, there is dryness and the more relationships you have, the more you lubricate and less discomfort there are. And it doesn't have to be with penetration ”.
The physiotherapist specializing in pelvic floor Mireia Grossmann, author of The exposed pelvic floor (RBA), explains that "the vibrator is a sexual object but also a physiotherapy tool". Why? "Because vibration is one of the best therapeutic approaches to overcome low muscle tone." And although there are internal and external vibrators, Grossmann recommends the latter because "the vibration is already transmitted in depth and many times the vagina is not for visits." In this case the satisfyer is a great what because it is a toy that does not suck, but has a sonic wave that stimulates the entire clitoris for the external and internal areas.
Manjón points out that Chinese balls, although they are very useful, must be used wisely. “The secret of Chinese balls is to start small. First with little weight and little time and increase. It's like going to the gym. You don't pick up 10 kilo dumbbells the first day and spend 3 hours giving it… ”.
By the way, does the satisfyer create addiction as has been said?
The gynecologist Canals de Ros explains that “many times the problem is that in relationships with the couple there is usually no masturbation” and points out that “there is usually more reluctance on the part of the man; they would like it already ”.
And what about the new generations?
Be careful, sexually transmitted diseases rebound
And it is not only the emotional part of sex, it is also the risk it poses to health since, to Mónica's sexologist and sex, "I am concerned about the increase in sexually transmitted diseases and that they consider the morning after pill a contraceptive method. I'm not a catastrophist at all, but it is true that adults have the responsibility for the sexual and emotional education of the new generations and we are leaving this education in the hands of the internet ”.
