Of all the beautiful things that Christmas achieves, one of them is bringing people together. At a time of year when it's all about love, reunions, and cotton candy … the last thing we want is to make it the Grinch's house. Therefore, in addition to knowing what phrases are harmful to a relationship, we know what five phrases you should never say to your boyfriend or girlfriend unless you want to end up single this Christmas.
"I happen to have dinner with your parents on Christmas Eve / New Year's Eve"
You like him better or worse, if you love him, you have to accept his family. Although your favorite hobby is not meeting with them every week, Christmas involves family dinners that both you and your partner will have to take on. A few hours with the in-laws are not going to hurt you much. Or so we think.
"Are you really going to be dressed like this?"
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Man, let's say that if the boy or girl has dressed like this it will be because they like it. We think it is a rather unnecessary rhetorical question assuming you love him and like him the way he is. Unless he's dressed as Rudolph with a flashing nose included, you have no rights. Actually, if it's Rudolph's either …
"When my ex came to dinner, he brought some super good wine"
Do you really think making a comment about the wonderful wine your ex brought two hundred Christmases ago is necessary? In addition, what you are really asking is that you have a detail with your family to go to dinner and that should come from him / her. Press the fair.
"You should still stop right? You've already eaten / drunk a lot"
Your partner is probably old enough to know when to stop eating or drinking. These types of comments can hurt a lot because, normally, they go with second thoughts. If you have a problem with your weight or your devotion to alcohol, this is not the time or the place.
"Are you really going to go with your friends tonight?"
Well yes, seriously. Your partner also needs the holidays to disconnect, catch up with his friends, have fun in different environments … Just because it is Christmas does not mean that you have to be together all the time. Leave time for him / her, it will be positively reflected later. In addition, you also have the right to do so.
"The kings are the parents"
Stop hostilities, please. You had no right to be so bad! If you tell him this, you have already passed there. You end up single / fixed.
If you want to connect more with your partner, be it Christmas, Easter or any other day, take a look at these tips from Elsy Reyes.
